Sunday, August 14, 2011

Decision is Made

We've weighed the options and have come to a decision. 

On one hand we could do a frozen cycle.  The positives include it costing less (ONLY $1k-HA!), require less trips to the doctor (who is an hour away) and would be less of a strain on my body.  The negative is that we only have one frozen embryo.  That means one chance with an embryo that will not be a Grade 1.  And, it may not even make it through thaw, which means I could go through the entire prep, get on the table, and then have nothing to work with. 

On the other hand, we could do another fresh cycle.  The positives include that we might have multiple embryos to work with again and we could add the frozen one to anything we get to increase our odds.  And if we have extra embryos, we can freeze them to put with our one little frozen embryo.  It will also mean another $8,700 for the doc and procedures, as well as another several thousand for meds since I used up my allowable spendable per calendar year last time.

We've decided to do another fresh cycle for several reasons.  Since I'm not 35 yet (i.e. close to death in the fertility world), we figured our chances are better with a fresh cycle now.  Also, I can't imagine mentally going through the prep for another cycle and then having nothing to work with the day of transfer.  Life has been cruel enough lately and we seem to always fall on the bad side of average.  We know it's going to cost us more and dealing with the meds is a pain in the you-know-what, but figure it's worth the chance.

8 comments:

  1. Fingers crossed you get your BFP from this new cycle!

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  2. Good luck with this cycle!!!

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  3. I was just thinking about you and wondering how you were doing. The fresh cycle does seem to have more pros, so it makes sense. Not an easy decision to make, especially when it seems most decisions in IF Land are based on finances. I really hope this is the last time you have to go through this and you get your sticky rainbow! Sending you lots of baby dust! Good luck=)

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  4. I hope this is it for you!!! =0)

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  5. What a great decision - Here's to your BFP!!!!

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  6. Hi,
    I found your blog while looking for blogs on infertility. I have been diagnosed with PCOS and our journey has been 15 months. It's been good for me to feel like I'm not alone. Thanks for sharing your story.

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  7. Hey, I totally missed this post when I was away. I hope things are going well with you, and your fresh cycle is underway.

    Thinking of you...

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